‘You shouldn’t gift a cat’: Boyfriend’s birthday surprise leaves college student stressed and ready to return unasked for kitten

This pawrent is in a real catastrophe. After hinting for jewelry or a framed butterfly for her birthday, her boyfriend surprised her with… a “One Free Cat Adoption” coupon. While well-meaning, gifting a living being without full discussion is a major misstep. Especially when it comes with ongoing emotional and financial responsibility. The new kitten, Faye, is a typical 6-month-old tabby tornado, bouncing off walls and meowing nonstop. Meanwhile, the boyfriend seems blissfully unbothered by the chaos… or the reality of their pet-restricted rental.

The original cat, a calm six-year-old who was once an outdoor adventurer, has yet to meet the new whirlwind. Understandably, the pawrent feels overwhelmed, sleep-deprived, and guilty. Torn between a growing bond and the real-world weight of this unexpected addition. She’s trying to do everything right, but with exams looming and no extra support, the pressure’s mounting.

To rehome or not to rehome? That’s the agonizing question. This situation is a lesson in why pets should never be surprises and why true gifts should come with support, not stress. Whether Faye stays or goes, it’s okay to prioritize stability, sleep, and sanity. Sometimes the kindest choice is the hardest one.

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