‘I’m genuinely worried Winnie might get hurt’: Frustrated pawrent clashes with 27-year-old new roommate over repeatedly crossing cat’s purrsonal boundaries, sparking stress at home

This cat parent has had enough. For five years, Winnie the cat has lived a peaceful, well-cared-for life. Until a new roommate started bulldozing every boundary. Despite calm, repeated requests, the roommate keeps feeding Winnie treats she shouldn’t have, manhandling her when she tries to escape, and overstimulating her despite clear warnings. Dismissive remarks like “she’s just a cat” only add fuel to the fire, as do passive-aggressive reactions and suspicious “accidents” with personal items.

At its core, this isn’t just about one cat’s comfort. It’s about respect. Boundaries matter, especially when it comes to the care of a living creature who can’t advocate for herself.

With a trip coming up, this guardian is stuck between concern and conflict. A smart short-term plan? Make sure the cat-sitter knows Winnie’s needs and keep her safely in a closed room. One final, clear message to the roommate might be necessary. Not to win her over, but to protect Winnie. No drama, just firm lines. It’s not about control. It’s about care.

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