Being the recipient of a great compliment can be really uplifting, especially if it is unexpected and makes you feel great about something you’re insecure about. Whether it’s our looks, personality, or how we handle our jobs, there’s always something we don’t feel right about and when someone gives an honest compliment, it can make you feel like a million bucks.
The great Mark Twain once said: “I can live for two months on a good compliment.”
Some compliments, when given by the right person at the right time, can be so powerful that they change the way we see ourselves. A Redditor named Curious-Repair-2606 asked people to share a “compliment you’ll never forget,” and nearly 2,000 people recounted the positive remarks they’ll always remember.
The thread is a beautiful reminder to all of us to stop holding back on compliments and give them as freely as possible—that is, of course, if they are genuine.
Here are 17 of the best compliments that people will never forget.
1. “I wish you were my dad”
“Son’s girlfriend: ‘I wish you were my dad.’ Could have cried.”
2. “You’re cute”
“A drunk girl at a concert told me I was cute. Still holding onto that one 5 years later.”
3. A different type of guy
“She told me I was a ‘man written by a woman.’ Still not sure if it was a blessing or a curse I didn’t pick up on the hint.”
“As a lady, that usually means you’re doing a lot of things right. You’re a woman’s ideal.”
“Definitely sounds like a blessing. Women often write fiction with emotionally competent, kind, passionate, hardworking men as the lead, so I’d say she was complimenting you.”
4. “You’re so beautiful”
“My fiancée Kayla, a few weeks before I lost her in a car accident, was watching me while I was doing something around our small apartment. She just kept smiling at me, and I asked her, ‘Whatca smiling at baby?’ She said so sweetly. ‘You! You’re so beautiful.’ I melted. As a man. I’ve never had such a wonderful compliment. My face turned bright red. She always made me smile.”
5. The best dad
“My old boss and best friend were having lunch with a client and the subject of kids because the client was expecting. My boss said ‘If you want to know how to be a good parent look at him (me) he’s the best father I’ve ever known.'”
“That’s a great compliment.”
6. You’re calm
“A friend called me calm and collected while I was dealing with social anxiety. They didn’t know it, ofc m, but it made me question how I perceive myself compared to how others see me and helped me regain my self-confidence.”
7. A princess
“When I was leaving my house for senior prom, a little girl walked by with her dad and said, ‘Look, Daddy, a princess!’ And i cried all my makeup off.”
8. A great conversationalist
“14 years ago, a man sitting next to me on an airplane told me that I was the best conversationalist he’d ever met. He pointed to his headphones and said that he never talks to anyone on flights, but talked to me the whole time because I was so interesting to talk to. He gave me his business card and said he’d give me a sales job right now. It was SUCH a powerful complement that it changed the trajectory of my life and made me a much more confident person. Thanks, Monty, wherever you are now.”
9. Radio voice
“’You have a great voice for radio.’ Oddly enough I’ve gotten that same compliment a few times. Random for sure but was nice to hear.”
“Same. I sometimes respond with ‘Thanks. My wife also tells me that I have the face for radio too.'”
10. Great laugh
“Someone once told me my laugh could light up a room and it stuck with me.”
11. Word to your mother
“I was 20 years old and working the ticket counter at the Amtrak station and I was chatting with a customer from Germany who was traveling solo around the US. It seemed like a friendly and standard conversation. I helped her with a smile, and she thanked me and walked away. Twenty minutes later she came back to my counter and handed me a small box of chocolate-covered blueberries and said, ‘Please tell your mother she did a wonderful job raising you’ and headed off to her gate. She didn’t know that I had lost my mother to a drug overdose a couple months prior and was absolutely devastated on the inside. That single compliment and interaction has stuck with me for 22 years and I still think about that moment when I’m in a dark place. Wherever you are, friendly German tourist, thank you for giving me the strength to get through all those years ago.”
12. Good-looking couple
“My ex and I were at Waffle House, and the waitress said, ‘Wow, you two look like a couple out of a soap opera.’ She sounded like that was a good thing.”
13. A lively compliment
“My best friend got married a few months ago. I traveled to her city and stayed at her house for a week or so to help out and support her. Her sister has a 9-year-old son, and we spent some time together. It was my first time meeting them. After I got home from the wedding, my friend told me that the little boy had said, ‘She breathed life into the place.’ I just can’t forget what he said.
14. Good vibes
“Someone told me they liked my vibe. I’ll never forget that because it was about my personality and not my looks or style or something in that realm.”
15. Great veins
“A nurse once said I’d make a great heroin addict because my veins are very visible.”
16. Any hair will do
“My ex’s mom said ‘I’ve seen you with long hair, a short bob, a long bob, and now a pixie, and you look absolutely beautiful with any hairstyle you choose.’ I will never forget this compliment. I hated my ex, but her mom was such a sweetheart.”
17. Never letting go
“That it took me 41 years to find you and I’m never letting go of you. That’s what my partner said to me the day we decided that we were more than friends and since then, our lives are just full of love and mutual respect.”
